I am still currently staying at my parents house because I am doing my masters of law and my dad didn't allow me to have my own place. In the very short period she was in charge of the family trust she showed herself to be a horrible money manager except when it came to paying her own bills with MIL's money. When all is said and done you can then disburse money according to the will from that account leaving money in a reserve in case you need it for the estate . lol. I told my witch sister about this AT&T issue and she said "bring me all the paperwork and I will handle it.". While I poured my heart out to her year after year, she made a joke out of me behind my back, and she ultimately used whatever she knew in order to wage some character assassination once she felt I was “in the way”. (She was executor of their will (unbeknownst to us) at the time so she knew full well who they were willing their money to). I can understand feeling "rejected" or "second best" in all of this, but, I cannot tolerate the spiteful, hateful rumors and insituations that are going around and then sent to me as indirect messages (when I try to nail my siblings or other people on it, they go in denial about ever insinuating anything). Today is the beginning of a new year. The best thing I could have realized is that even with my problems, I’m ok. Now that realize that what they are has a name, it explains so much and I can stop trying to be ok when I already am. Luckily, there were many accusations that were blatantly untrue and considered absurd by witnesses, but the damage will always be there. But thanks anyway for taking the time to stop by and share. She was afraid I would see it if my mom and I went into the document bag while I was there. She would play the loving concerns sister to get me to tell her all of my deepest and painful secrets, only to keep that information to use against me at another time. Hi drownedinsorrow - feel free to post your story or just vent here. Happy Thanksgivign to you as well. Susan Reid (author) from Where Left is Right, CA on April 30, 2012: Dear chicky, oldersister, Debby Bruck and Sandy and all those who have commented here over its lifespan. On the plus side, witch sister has had no luck with AT&T. My mother died a month ago. Hi Mighty Mom...have been reading your very relevant hub and it all sounds so (sadly) familiar to me. After talking to the lawyer it was more hassle than I wanted to have. Her mom has been receiving county pension since her husband died. I thought of the expense of putting the bill in the mail to the executor. How could some children be so thoughtless towards their elderly parent who cared for them during their formative years. It is what has brought me through many things and will continue to sustain me, no matter what! She reported me to the authorities for tax evasion, insurance evasion & paying low wages. It was very difficult to come to this realization, especially the physical part, as I have always been taught by my parents that I needed to forgive and “put on a happy face.” This has caused me to feel like the “outsider” in the family for most of my adult life and often have been discounted or ridiculed for truth telling, and for being too sensitive. I am the only family member in a position to help. I honestly always thought I was the problem because I certainly had problems. My lawyer told me about it. It is amazing/disgusting how prevalent this scenario is. You could say I have a PhD in Psychopathy!! Neither of them have considered my feelings and what a complete outcast they have meade me feel in all this at all.